{"id":109,"date":"2009-01-27T13:54:00","date_gmt":"2009-01-27T13:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ch4cs.com\/blog\/?p=109"},"modified":"2009-01-27T13:54:00","modified_gmt":"2009-01-27T13:54:00","slug":"the-mirror-theory-a-favorite-book","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ch4cs.com\/index.php\/the-mirror-theory-a-favorite-book\/","title":{"rendered":"The Mirror Theory – A Favorite Book"},"content":{"rendered":"

People frequently ask me about what I am reading and why. \u00a0I often hesitate to share the titles of books I am reading until I have finished them and can whole-heartedly<\/span> endorse them. \u00a0The book I have re-read the most times and marked with the most underlines and post-it note tags is titled, The Mirror Theory<\/span>\u00a0by Betsy Otter-Thompson. \u00a0This book describes the idea that we see in the world only what we need to see, to be shown the work we need to do within ourselves. \u00a0The concept of mirrors in this book, relates to emotions. \u00a0The idea is that we will only feel negative emotions when we are carrying them inside of us and we need to heal the judgement or belief which is creating that negative emotion. \u00a0We will only have a negative reaction to the negative emotions, or actions, of others when we need to heal that emotion within ourselves. \u00a0So for instance if I am feeling intense fear or anger when I am in the presence of someone who is acting out anger, it means that I have fear or anger within me that I need to heal. \u00a0If I don’t have fear or anger within me which I need to heal, then I will only feel compassion or Love when someone is acting out anger in my presence.<\/p>\n

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When I first started reading this book I almost put it down and never picked it up again. \u00a0It started with, what I thought of, as a very sensationally, contrived premise and that was a turn-off for me. \u00a0But, because I had been referred to the book by someone I thoroughly respected, I kept reading and after about fifty pages, I was hooked. \u00a0As I continued to read I started highlighting statements and sections of the book, which is very unusual for me. \u00a0When I was about halfway through the book I found a statement which struck me so powerfully that I did not want it to get lost in the mass of highlighted areas so I went out and bought some post-it note tabs. \u00a0When I finished reading the book I didn’t even put it down, and just started reading it again from the beginning. \u00a0At this time I can’t even tell you how many times I have read the book from start to finish, because I quit counting after five or six repetitions, (that does not count the many times I have picked it up and re-read some of the \u00a0highlighted and tabbed entries).<\/div>\n
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Now, I know that books are very personal things. \u00a0Books I love are often viewed as trash or completely uninteresting to people I love and respect. \u00a0Also books which have excited me at different times in the past can seem rather bland or even ridiculous to me today. \u00a0This says more about me and my struggles, growth and setbacks than it does about those books. \u00a0I realize that The Mirror Theory<\/span>\u00a0came into my life at just the right time and showed me just the things I needed in a way that resonated with me, to help me keep a Loving perspective on life and \u00a0my journey.\u00a0<\/div>\n
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The premise which almost made me throw the book out, is \u00a0that it tells the story of Jesus and his family. \u00a0His brothers, sisters, biological father, step-father, grandmother, cousins, etc. \u00a0The book uses the story of Jesus and how he learned to recognize the Mirrors in his life, to illustrate how Mirrors work and how they show us exactly what we need to heal within ourselves. \u00a0In the \u00a0story Jesus learned from his interactions with his family as they struggled to learn the lessons from the Mirrors in their lives. \u00a0As he grew to understand himself<\/span>, \u00a0he was able to heal himself and be a role model for others who wish to heal.<\/div>\n
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As I have studied and \u00a0come to understand the work of Dr. Michael Ryce<\/span>, I feel The Mirror Theory<\/span> is completely compatible with these teachings and it gives some wonderful metaphors and stories to illustrate the way Love works in our lives.<\/div>\n
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We come from Love, we are made of Love, we are Love. \u00a0Everything else is false.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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